I have been reading a series of books about dogs such as The Art of Racing in the Rain, and A Dog's Purpose. Most recently, I read Inside of a Dog. This book in particular has significantly changed my interaction with Zeldie and consequently she has been responding to me differently. In particular, I know now the effect that touch can have on a dog. Much like it is calming to humans, it is calming to canines as well. And so, when she is distressed by the noises and smells that penetrate our front door causing her to pace and bark uncontrollably, I go to her and gently hold her bracing her body against mine to radiate safety and security to her. I have noticed a shift in her preferences. Previously, David was her entire world. She lived, breathed, ate and pooped by his undivided adoration of her. When she wanted to play, she wanted to play with him. She would go to her toy basket, pick the distraction of her choice and plop it in front of him dipping into a puppy play bow as she did so. David would indulge her infinitely. In turn, Zeldie would express her delirious happiness in her twists and turns and fits and spurts. But now, she will intermittently drop her toy in front of me to play. She will more consistently cuddle with me. It brings peace to my heart when she does this. To be loved by a dog, even as her 2nd best person, is a wonderful thing.
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